The first modern dating app for people living with STDs and chronic conditions. Affordable, private, and human-first.
Source: CDC, WHO
After a diagnosis, the hardest part isn't the condition itself -- it's the fear of rejection. The anxiety of disclosure. The feeling that you've been removed from the dating pool entirely. And the platforms that exist to help? They charge $43/month for basic messaging, run on outdated technology from 2005, and treat their users like a niche to exploit rather than people to serve.
I was diagnosed with HSV-2 three years ago. I haven't been on a date since. Not because I couldn't -- because I was afraid of the conversation.
-- User research participant, 28F, New York
Vela exists so this conversation happens in a space of understanding, not judgment.
A modern dating experience designed around empathy, honesty, and genuine connection.
Granular controls -- show your status to everyone, matches only, or nobody.
Every user passes face verification. No bots, no catfish, no fake profiles.
Private AI support for disclosure conversations, dating anxiety, and everything in between.
Share photos on your terms. Private album requests keep you in control.
Filter by condition, relationship intent, age, and distance to find your people.
Create your account with email. Verify your face (no bots allowed).
Add photos, your bio, conditions (optional), and what you're looking for.
Swipe through real, verified profiles. Match, chat, and connect.
Built different from legacy platforms.
| Feature | Vela | PS | MPWH |
|---|---|---|---|
| Free messaging | Yes | No | No |
| Modern UX / mobile-first | Yes | No | No |
| Face verification | Yes | No | No |
| AI emotional support | Yes | No | No |
| Condition privacy controls | Yes | No | No |
| Premium price / mo | $11.50 | $34 | $15 |
Premium enhances your experience. Matching and messaging are included for everyone.
Matching and messaging are included for everyone. Premium unlocks unlimited likes, boosts, incognito, read receipts, and AI Companion.
Three tiers: show to everyone, matches only, or nobody. You decide who sees what.
Every user is verified. No fake profiles, no bots, no catfish. Real people only.
Your health information is encrypted at rest and in transit. Always.
FaceID and fingerprint to open the app. No one else gets in.
Browse without appearing in others' stacks. Premium feature for total discretion.
Push notifications that reveal nothing. Your privacy extends beyond the app.
A dating app that treats its users like humans. We believe everyone deserves connection -- your status doesn't define you. Affordable, private, and built with care.
A modern dating experience designed around empathy, honesty, and genuine connection.
Granular controls -- show your status to everyone, matches only, or nobody.
Every user passes face verification. No bots, no catfish, no fake profiles.
Private AI support for disclosure conversations, dating anxiety, and everything in between.
Be part of the community. Join us and help shape the future of stigma-free dating.